Quote: Andrew Boyd Love, Relationship Weâre all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if youâve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect thereâs no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isnât until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problemsâthe ones that make you truly who you areâthat weâre ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what youâre looking for. Youâre looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong personâsomeone you lovingly gaze upon and think, This is the problem I want to have. Andrew Boyd Love, Relationship